Before starting, it must be said that back in the early days of 2001-2006/7, I’ve must’ve had my stupid rose colored glasses on phase, cause what I’m bout to post will leave you asking why! In highschool, the level of shyness I had was high and it didn’t help that the ladies just looked at the chair and outward appearance, not bothering to take a chance and talk to me. This dogged me into my 20s up til today where now I’m like meh, but back on topic.
Something got it into my head to try to find a girl online through chat rooms & get to know em and work from there, (Bad move, I know). The two stories I’m about to tell is the reason that I’m no longer trying to find Ms. Right & focused on me.
This first woman, (I use that word loosely as sin), met me after messaging me and we talked, exchanging emails until one day it stopped. Days went by but nothing, and I wrote her off, going on with life. Then a year later, a email from her was in my inbox. Reading it, flags flew in my head, cause it sounded like a cop drama. She was in Witness protection due to taking children she babysit from their drug dealer parents etc. She pmed me on messenger, but didn’t tell me shit so me being about to smell a pile, I began a search on a search engine, guess wtf turned up!
Turned out, she married her highschool sweetheart a month after we “met”. I confronted her with this and she goes, she was treating me like a game at first, because she thought I was playing her. Um, I never play around when my heart’s out. Then, well, I’ll just say my adopted sibling Adrian and his then wife saved my sanity, she was bad for me. Didn’t have to, but she asked for some titles to get into anime with, & though I told her it would be better to watch them with someone, she pushed the issue.
A list of mild anime was given, but a day later I get blasted by her, telling me I’m sick cause she found hentai? Do I like this shit for that reason? Swear the titles were not hentai, they were InuYasha and a couple others, that was it!
She now has two kids, last I heard, but good rittens,
This next one, I’ll keep short. We met in 2004, talked a bit, but she’d go off messenger fer a bit, then a new screen id would friend me and talk to me. Then I found out it was her testing me to see if I would cheat, and she’d say I failed the test. This went on for month until I grew tired of her “tests” & told the bitch off.
There you have it, horror stories. Now I think I just wanna be a pen pal to someone in Japan. Not looking for a wife/girlfriend, just a friend.